You know what her feelings are, don't you?

The more you push for what you want, the more resistance you're going to get.

Accept her decision to D, and work on you.

I know this is difficult but I can feel your need to control this through the interwebs here.

Leave her be for awhile.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss