Nero,
It's okay to feel sad about clearing out your mother's home. After all, it was home to you and your siblings for many years too.

I often think about the things that we collect over the years and when we pass on, what we once thought of as our treasures, are not always seen as treasures in the eyes of others, hence the selling off or carting off to the landfill, or donating takes place. If it gets to be too much for you during the sorting out time, walk away for a while. It's okay to cry and feel down. It's all part of the mourning process.

Please come here to talk about it. Please do not suffer the sadness and grief alone. We will listen and offer our support to you.

Please take care of yourself.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.