T, I am very proud of you because you've been super patient w/your w. I'm glad you didn't say anything to her or the children about the way she's been about providing the paperwork you needed to file for a divorce. Keep in mind timeliness is not one of their strong suits while in crisis. Time has no meaning to them, especially when we are waiting on something from them.
A new year is not far off and I can honestly say that there will be many new and exciting adventures and experiences in store for you and your children.
"Dad", you've done a great job of being there for your children and they aren't going to forget the way in which you've handled a very frustrating, nerve wracking, and basically uncomfortable situation. My hat's off to you today!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
