newbie needs help part 5

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Not sure what to do with my waw. I mentioned to her 3 weeks ago that I thought she should move out and get an apartment, and said I really wanted a plan for that to happen by that next weekend. The week went buy and she came down with pneumonia. I took care of her and kids and didn't bother bringing anything up about her leaving.she seems to be very tired both physically and mentally for the last month. I have just focused on the kids and myself. She comes home from work and has had zero energy. Has been sleeping alot and had zero energy to help with cooking and kids homework. I really do think she is fighting depression. Depression runs in her family. Today I got a call from kids school and 2 of 3 kids were sick. It messed up my work day but I picked up kids and got them home cooked lunch and dinner. I went into work at 3 and wife was home buy 330. I got home at 6 and wife was sleeping in my room. The kitchen was a mess and it looked like kids were unsupervised since I left. I had bible study at 7. By 630 wAW was down in kitchen watching me clean. She asked me if I could stay home and I told her I needed to go since I missed last week. I was pretty frustrated with the day and mentioned I couldn't do this situation until xmas holidays were over. I left for bible study and she texted me 3x about nothing important so I didn't respond. I am going to take tomorrow off and going to cabin in am for a few days to hunt. I'm convinced she is depressed but don't know what to do. If I suggest or bring it up she will think I am controlling. The more I push or bring up her leaving her attitude changes.