Ugh- so ended up having a few email exchanges with STBX - presumbaly after he had checked with his lawyer about some of the items he had initialed.
You know what his biggest issue was? I had said that if the girls were sick we needed to share the responsibility of taking time off from work to care for them (so that I don't burn through all my PTO - which I have done in the last few years). I added that if they were sick - he shouldn't move them to his house an hour away but should stay with them at my house. He said that was an absolute "no go". Just one more instance of his extreme distate towards spending a single moment more than needed in our marital home. I am just perplexed by that attitude.
Also we hadn't addressed holidays - and he said if he ever gets a normal schedule that he would like to rotate them, but then he had to add a lot of invective about how favorable this agreement was to me and how all he had ever wanted was time with the girls.
I didn't reply to his b****ing and moaning - because it won't help anything right now. But seriously, I didn't want ANY of this - how is any of this unfair to him?
