I do not understand!!!!!! I have lived with H for 33 years until he moved out in June 2014. He tries to come over on Sundays for a few hours but some weeks doesn't even do that. D23, D18 and I might get a text 1 day during the week saying, "Have a good day". As the song says, "Wild horses couldn't drag me away". There is nothing that would keep me from seeing or at least talking on the phone to my children EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. How can someone live with another person for 33 years, move out, and then basically have no contact with them???? Even when I'm not actively thinking about him or our switch, I can still FEEL the thought of him. Does that even make sense? It's like his spirit is constantly with me. How is he not feeling the same thing that I am???
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18