Right... But if you read Sandi's posts, there were people in her life who could reach her without her feeling antagonistic.

But your W doesn't necessarily need that. It may be something happens to make her rethink. I was completely unsupported when I turned my mind around. You never know what's possible.

I didn't write all that to drag you down. Just to say, it's not like she's clinging to a position she likes. I think she just feels like she already tried the more desirable plan. So stubbornness isn't what it is.

Also words I needed to hear.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.