Oh, BTW, is there a reason you worked so hard to avoid that hug? Because one of the good moves my H made when I was trying to come back to him was to suggest non-sexual things that involved physical contact. That was what I'd been craving -- him doing stuff for me that I knew was for me, not just for him, as sex would have been.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15