So in regards to me acting unaffectionate, inattentive, and not being close. I assume that any attempts at addressing that is going to be too much for the time being until she decides what she wants to do and is ready to talk. Until then I should continue to work on myself (what other things I contributed to this) and on detaching?
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."