Thank you once again.

Part of me is still looking for that magic bullet or that conversation that makes her understand that we should work on our M and that so many of her complaints are down to poor communication on both our parts. Odd how we both felt we were 'putting up' with the other's bad mood.

Anyway I know its not there just like there is no magic bullet that cures me of my issues.

Hard work, real actions and a lifetime of commitment is what it will take.


As for the warmth side well 80% of ice cold is really quite frosty indeed.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress