Okay. I am re-reading it and highlighting passages. I am trying a few changes. I tend to be a "fixer" and I take on a lot of stuff, and she lets me (just like it says in the book). So while these may not be complete 180s let me know if you think I am on the right kind of track. -She has never gotten the oil changed in our van. I am going to let her take care of that. - I do most of the meal planning and grocery shopping. I am going to take 1 or 2 days "off" per week to let her handle it. - She usually expects me to plan our vacations when we go camping. I had already did one and told her she could plan the other (i know this violates the "don't make future plans" rule, but this was already in the works before I got the book).
I have backed off on the affection and "I love yous".
I will keep reading the book, highlighting and taking notes.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
