So are you saying just listen to her and let her move forward with the D? I know we are going to talk soon and I don't want to even talk about the D, or argue against it. My main concern is how she feels and her anger.

I feel I pushed too hard this last go around and made her feel pressured to try.

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15