Hey Roid, I believe I am in a similar spot with my W right now. She told me a couple weeks ago that she wanted to start working on things to see where it will go. She also told me that she couldn't guarantee that her feelings for me will come back but her telling she wants to try is definitely a step in the right direction. Which I appreciated.
At the time I was totally blindsided by this but I totally validated her and agreed that we should take things slow. Since then we have had a couple dates.The First one wasn't really a date (although I consider it to be), but I invited her to spend time with my nieces and I on their girls day, not thinking she would accept, but she did! It was during this time that she was affectionate and like her old self with me. However a day after she said she realized that even doing that was going to fast so now we are still taking things slowly, more like good neighbor/best friends like way. The second one we went to dinner and it was good but not great because I backslid into talking about our R, but it was good because she realized that it needed to happen.
Our next date is coming up this weekend and It is at a really nice fancy restaurant so it will give me a chance to show her the handsome side of me and hopefully it won't get awkward although our communication lately has been pretty good, so I'm confident that it won't be.
Anyway, I digress a bit, apologies. Its good to hear that things are getting better with your sitch. Sounds like you are doing all the right things right now. Keep it up! Wishing you the best.
Me:31 W:28 No Kids T:14 M:8 BD:09/24/14 Separation 09/25/14
