You know... my W knows a couple who were in worse M shape than we are. One of them invited the other to take ballroom dancing lessons... "Hey W, I'm going to my ballroom dancing lesson. Care to join me?" (Then, if she says no, go anyway. What if you even took charge and arranged kid care yourself beforehand and chose a place for drinks later just in case.) This couple started to dance competitively and it saved their marriage. The shared hobby, touching, and the man learning to lead... that sort of thing. I will be doing this myself next month as part of my GAL.

Last edited by HPoirot; 11/06/14 07:44 PM.

Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014