Today I am feeling very confused and disappointed by my W deciding to sign D papers.

She said she cares about me, but doesn't want to feel angry. I feel she never did the work to get past these angry feelings. I know she noticed change and issues were being addressed and we had good times together, even within the week. But she seems to be feeling the past and ignoring what we have right now.

I just don't know. I don't want to see her in pain, but I do not agree that D is the answer.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15