Well nearly another 2 month's have flown past and we are still not back together but she is very friendly to me but I'm a little scared she has put me in the friend zone I'm just not sure. I went to her house this week and I knocked on the door and when she opened it she said what are you knocking for just walk straight in I will be at your house, so I took that as a good sign, I asked if I could take her out one night and she said maybe when she gets time, but I know she goes out at the drop of a hat if one of her friends asks her out. She did get upset earlier in the week when she called at my house which used to be the family home before she moved out with the kids, I was painting the living room at the time she arrived and she said she was feeling very emotional and it hurt her that I was now doing all the things that she had been asking me to do for years and that she would not have left me if I had made all the changes for her she also later that day sent me a txt message saying I never loved her and would not do this to someone you love so all my changes are hurting her I don't know if this is normal with Db or not some feedback would be great