Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[gogofo]

The only thing that will scare her off is for you to push, control, and pressure her. Why did she leave the second time (after piecing)?

I don't think we were actually piecing. I thought we were but I think the process we made was mostly superficial.

We split the second time because of feelings from the past coming up again. It was triggered by an affection/sex issue and then her feelings and memories of our past relationship came up again.

She feels anger about how she had to leave in order for me to make any changes. Anger about how now I am doing things that she likes but where were they in the past. She likes who I have become but cannot get through her anger about who I was in the past.