W just called and informed me of some kid stuff.

Then bamm! She tells me she signed the papers yesterday, I had a feeling she might and she did.

I told her that "I feel that a long term separation or divorce were not the solution to our problems, but I respect her right to do it."

What she did tell me was that she cannot take the roller coaster any more, she cannot do it. She said that when we try to make things work she feels angry and she does not want to be angry at me.

I told her that I would like to learn more about how she felt that way and she said we could talk about it on Saturday.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15