Maybell, sorry to hear abot your knee I hope it's a short-lived pain.
RAI, it will just take you time to realize it, but you will learn to not do things for her right now. Let yourself be disappointed a few times by her not having a reaction that you were hoping for, and you won't have to convince yourself to do things for YOU instead of her. At that point it wouldnt mean you don't love her or want the M to work. It is just part of the detachment process.
Keep it up!
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
