Oh btw, during piecing is the time to be friends! Her sexual desire may not return right away. Don't expect her to feel the same as you. Be her friend at this time. Continue to enforce your boundaries and try to be as attractive as possible. But don't expect too much in the bedroom at first.
Have fun together and with others. Plan ahead and don't get lazy. Take care of yourself. Be charming. Use her LL.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!