Good for you, SS, for making the list. Isnt it amazing how it is so hard for us to embrace all that we are when we are going through all of this in our marriage?
The thing is that you are all those things. No one can take that away from you .....except you.
Originally Posted By: Ss06
GREAT MOMS ARE GREAT WIVES EVEN IF ONLY FOR THE SAKE OF THEIR CHILDREN AND DON'T HAVE HUSBANDS WHO WALK AWAY BECAUSE THEY ARE GREAT TO THEIR HUSBANDS!!!
About that ^^^^, you dont get to take all the blame, SS. Sorry, but you just dont have that kind of power. There were two people in that marriage. One of them chose to walk away. He had different choices he could have made.
Who I was and am as a mother is separate from who I was as a wife. Could I have done some things differently as a wife? Yep.
But I did the best I could with the knowledge and tools I had at the time. Had I known better, I would have done better. Whatever I did or didnt do was never with the INTENT to cause harm. That makes a big difference in my eyes.
Own only your stuff, SS. Give his stuff back to him.
