First, congrats on that positive exchange. It does sound like you've made some changes to make you better and your life fabulous:-). That is awesome, my friend.
I'm going to ask you a question. Do you really want to say to your h "thanks for noticing my changes. Why does this make you sad? Do you still not think our m is worth fighting for? How can you not try?" I know you wouldn't send that although I have a feeling that's what's lurking below. But that is mind reading on my part.:-)
I say sit on it for a bit. What do you want to ask?
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer