Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[gogofo]

Thanks Elsa, I will try and catch up on your situation.

I went to bed early last night after going to dinner with a couple friends. When I woke up the W had sent a text saying that I should not worry about going out of town with her on Friday, her SIL is going with her.

This is now the second thing she has canceled or does not want me to attend with her. I feel she is again separating from me and opting out of time we had planned to spend together.

I was really looking forward to going with her and her cousins and we had planned to have a lot of fun. We even talked about how much fun it would be.

Not sure what she is thinking now or how she is feeling, but it doesn't seem positive.

I want to send an email to her, just not sure how to say that I am concerned about how she is feeling and her angry feeling towards our past and how they effect our current relationship. In my opinion she needs to let it out on me, multiple times, so I can understand how EXACTLY she feels. I feel she needs to see me taking ownership of how I hurt her and I think she needs to get these things out.