Think outside the box in regards to TG. Don't drive yourself crazy. Find out if you are going to have D14. If you are, maybe arrange to get her night before. Then you can suggest to D19 that you will make a TG dinner, pack it up and travel to her. Bring disposable dinner ware so there is little clean up and more time to relax and enjoy each others company. This way you all will have less stress. You can leave just before she leaves for work and have a leisurely drive home.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"