You said you laid down boundaries with consequences for her but you don't follow through. Then to punish her, you ( for some reason, are moving upstairs which punishes you more than her. I don't think you get anything that's going on in your stich.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.