Hello FunDad. What if your asked her, "How would you feel if..." and then make a suggestion for how you can take action to make sure the teen gets going in the morning (like, "... I told him to do x"). This instead you of asking your W to think of something you can do to help. It could show you're actively taking the lead in your family while making her feel heard.
Last edited by HPoirot; 11/06/1410:07 AM.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014