How to start rebuilding? - 2

[Hoju]

Thanks for the reply Jim, we got the cats together about 4 years ago. We agreed that she would take one and I would take the other, she has had both in her new apartment while the house was up for sale. Now that the home sale is final and all the staging furniture is gone she wants to go back on her word and keep both cats. I love the cats and could really use the comfort they offer right now but I don't want to hurt W as she is very attached to them as well. My dilemma is how do I approch asking for the cat? Should I even ask, because I really don't want her to hurt any more, but she did this not me.