Funny how when I come back in here to look around, it just breaks my heart to see new people trying to figure out wth happened. Job amd many others have said there has to be a MLC Script that they follow,and it is so true.I just hope and pray that you don't wait as long as I have,it's been 7 yrs. for me since it started. He has married the woman who he left me for,seems to be happy from what I understand.But I always told him from the beginning, in the end it will be the same story,just different characters,he still struggles with money, always has her family living with them at times,same old same old. As for me I am so much better, I wondered if I would ever get to a happy place and I have.and I know some of the old timers here will maybe bash me for saying this but I am still a stander will be till the day I die. Still pray for marriage restoration I am in it for the long haul.Even tho my name says Igaveup I have asked, i have begged God to release me from this stand, but he just won't, so I must be obedient to him and no one else. I just pray God will not make you wait as long as I have, but if he does just be prepared for a long long road with lots of pain ,but I do want you to know God will never leave you nor forsake you,I am living proof of that. God bless each and everyone of you but you will need to be strong, it's not an easy road, but my faith in God says that it will all be worth it one day. Good luck to you all....Irma
