Part of GAL's are to keep you so occupied you have little time to dwell on H or your R. And frankly yours seem to currently be a cursory distraction.

It's good to focus on S and make him a part of a dew GAL's, but the bulk of them need to be YOU-centric.

Immerse yourself in a "selfish" GAL. Give us some ideas of what you always wanted to do.

Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13