Hi Wonka & All, It's been a few days since I've checked in here, time for a quick update.
We're at full in house seperation now. Sleeping in a different room. Showering in a different bathroom etc. W spends a lot of her time in 'her' bedroom now on her phone and I pad with the door closed.
I feel that I've done well in respecting her wishes for space and time. I've not done any pursuing at all, no phone calls or messaging. My D's say that this is the best I've looked that they can ever remember! New wardrobe, hairstyle and glasses! The PMA to go with it is coming along slowly as well. W seems to be ignoring it all though. Hardly any comments - it's as if she's blocking my entire existence out of her life now. She's 'moved on' as she told our youngest D...
I'm so thankful that I have our D's to help me. My relationship with them is the best it's ever been. We are spending more time together now than we have ever done and having great times. Just wish that W would see it and join in and become part of it again because she's not at the moment. Her choice though.
The three of us are all hurt and 'feeling it' but taking each day at a time and keeping on keeping on!
Appreciate all your advice.
Jay
Ages: Me 58 Wife 50 Together: 27 years M25 D24 D21 Bomb Droppped 21 June 2014