Bond - For the record, my job is not to work with people. I just happen to work with people, in a company, as do most Americans who work for a living.
I don't take every bit of commentary on my thread as a personal attack -- only yours for some reason. Who the F knows. Maybe I'm just having an off day. Maybe you pushed my buttons at the wrong time. Maybe I have a lot of pent-up anger and it's directed at you.
I don't know. All I know is that I feel that I'm making good progress, and my W's attitude has made a dramatic shift lately. For the first time in forever (sorry for the Frozen reference), I finally feel like I'm heading in the right direction, and it's not just for a day or two. It's been more or less steady progress for three weeks. I feel like the combination of my focus (as advised by my DB coach), my great new job, my dance lessons, my level of fitness which I've never been able to achieve before, has really put me in a great place.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!