Yes. Spoke to a lawyer and discussed my options.

They've reviewed the seperation and childcare agreements I drafted and okayed those. They have prepped an injunction to file should my W try and move the kids away from me.

We've negotiated a settlement pretty quickly which is fair to both sides. Just wait and see if she signs it.

I get to keep the house which protects my D3s school application and gives them a bit more stability (I don't really want to stay here but its the right choice for my kids)

When it comes to the finances and big decisions I've always been really firm in my boundaries.

Last edited by jim0987; 11/05/14 08:48 PM.

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress