Setting ground rules really helps them understand that you're there for them. This is your opportunity to run your family the way you believe it should be run. Taking charge that way will bring you closer if you do it in a a loving and supportive way.

It's tough on the kids, I know. I'm with you.

And for Petes sakes, take them to the fireworks! She's the one who should be hiding, not you & the kids.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.