Mindsin - pt. 5 (back to basics)

[mindsin]

You and I have different definitions of "mind reading" then. I'm simply describing facts and events. I am not adding any spin, or giving reasons as to why my W said or did certain things, or what she meant by saying or doing "X, Y, and Z".

And, what else do I have to go on (if not my W's words and actions)? How do I know if what I'm doing is working? According to DR, I need to constantly monitor results. Well I'm posting those results here. How can I do that w/out making note of changes in my W's behavior (good or bad)?

For example, one of the short-term goals I have listed since my last DB coaching session was to have my W show interest and curiosity to my job/career, as well as sharing things that are going on in her own job/career. I have BOTH of those boxes checked now. That's progress, IMO.

In my day-to-day life, I focus WAY MORE on my children, my job, and the other things I have going on in my life. ON THIS FORUM, my posts will more often than not be focused on my W, because after all, she is the centerpiece of the crisis situation that I'm in right now.

And btw, I don't describe every little action from my W. I am simply posting only what I believe are noteworthy conversations and interactions that occurred. How is that different than what 99% of everyone else is doing on their own threads?