In my case, Smokey and D20 seem to speak the same language...especially since they both have substance abuse issues. I can see, clearly, now the fact they "get" each other in a way that I don't...makes it harder for them to be in the same room. She calls him on in his character defects...and, to some effect, he does the same.
Sadly, she was able to see the hard, cold facts of her dad's behavior before I was able to face it. She has predicted his actions accurately.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
