She is not seeing an IC. You are correct as to making progress and then the past coming up and muddying the situation.
She just sent me a text about not wanting to do anything Thanksgiving. She wants to split the week with the kids, her the beginning and me the end of the week.
So it seems that the fondness exercise backfired royally towards bringing us together. Feels like now it is driving us apart again.
I don't know if she is feeling pressured again and is getting scared or what it is.
I think I will reach out and ask to talk tonight about how she is feeling.
Roller coaster time again...
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15