Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

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i forget, is she seeing an IC? reading through your sitch it seems like every time you make progress, she throws something at you from your past behavior. unless you are leaving a lot out (and your posts seem very thorough, and you seem very sincere), it seems like you have made a lot of very overt efforts to put your past behind you. she seems to be clinging very hard. i dont know how you can address that exactly but it seems like work that she needs to do.