I don't have to be there. I mean, there's no logistical reason, except that I have some chores (laundry, blah) to do around the house. But I suppose I can put them off for a little bit and just get it done this evening.
The whole reason I've been avoiding him is because it just hurts. He's making a choice and showing no regret. I seem to be able to maintain a more even keel emotionally when we maintain our space physically.
I think I may just tell him I misjudged the time and don't have time to go home before I rush out again; he can drop the box on the back porch. Let him stew a bit.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies