afraid I have waited too long #4

[nit84]

To further explain my above post,

I am not quitting working on myself because my W has moved out.

I still am seeing a IMC and continuing to do some 180's to make sure they stick if my W does come back and GAL but no dating. I am confident that these changes have taken hold and have become 2nd nature to me for the most part.
It is a little frustrating though that I have been advised for my best interest not to fix up the house or even totally give it a spectacular cleaning. It is a lot better than it was a year ago before I moved back but there is more that could be done.

We are currently exchanging settlement proposals and I will be going back to lower the Spousal support now that W has moved out and has a job that is paying $13,000 more than she claimed at the 1st hearing. This part of the process is going to take awhile for the looks and feel of it. I still have hope but do feel that time is getting shorter to work on things.

I am moving on with my life as much as I can. Even at this point I would like to have my M work out just not sure what to do next.