I see you are both right. I don't know why I have this need to justify myself and thoughts to everyone all the time. I did that last night to W after I could have just left it at the first message and I'm doing it again this morning in response to feedback I asked for from both of you.
I'm sorry, and I really do appreciate the feedback. I'll try to consider what you both said and do better next time. Change seems to be so much harder when angry all the time.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10