Mighty has given you some excellent advice. It's best to keep the focus on you for now. Learn, grow and rediscover the person that you once were. Dbing is about helping you to navigate the pitfalls that come along, not just in relationships, but all walks of life.
The answers will come...but only if you sit quietly and allow the man upstairs to do his work, not only on your h, but also to help you too.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
