I think there would be a bunch of support for cancelling Christmas round here.

He might genuinely want to be a better father and that's great. You don't need to play along though you just need to be prepared to give him the opportunity (father not happy families)

Treat him like you would a wounded wallaby with a hangover. (Trying for Aussie animal references)


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress