I'm not kidding but I think he's been waiting 11years for the break up from h2. He's now suggesting Christmas lunch as a family at his house. Please some body Poke me in the eye with a fork, it would be far more fun!
I think I made a huge mistake of trying to be more generous and co parent more, this with a man that held me hostage, used my child as a lever to stop me from leaving him at a cafe after the break up, threats to kill me funeral arrangement for his funeral, threats of suicide the list goes on.
He creeps me out, but after 17 years it seems he's trying to be a parent albeit I very permissive one who rewards bad behaviour.
He most certainly isn't strong man material and still plays a door mat type role.
So pease cancel Christmas! I just don't want to play.
Last edited by Ggrass; 11/05/1409:22 AM.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I just don't want to play. 
