Updated the MIL yesterday on the true state of things over the last 2 months. I felt bad - telling bad news to someone who does not deserve to hear it - as MIL has done nothing but support me in the marriage (FIL died - dementia - 2.5 yr ago - they both have been a godsend to me on occasions)
It went OK - she feels she has lost her daughter - as W has been avoiding her and generally complaining about MIL to me.
W is pretty much alienating everyone around her with her egotistical behavior

Process started to separate bank accounts.
Not looking forward to angry response from W when I tell her I not her keeper of lies anymore


Me 51 W46 S 20,18,14
T21 M20
DDAY 1 Sept 2014
Current: W ending A?