No problems with the hard line with regards to any non-S-related contact between the two of you but cover your tracks and facilitate contact between S and W. If bedtime doesn't work, bring it forward in the night.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014