I'm no super vet but good job! Doesn't sound like a backslide, and that's huge. That type of 'if its meant to be our paths will cross' would infuriate me, it just seems so dishonest somehow. But then id get over it by realizing that she just isn't ready to grow up and do her half of the work to make a M work. If that's the case at least she's basically admitting it. "I'm too weak to not medicate/avoid conflict/change so I have accepted that I will lose my M over it unless somehow it happens without effort or discipline on my part". What can I say. You can't fix her.

How have YOU been doing? How has your life changed? Lets face it, many M dont get restored, any positives for you through this process?


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15