If I were a different me, I'd ask them about it.

Why can't you be? Wouldn't that be a 180?

But also consider... Why do you want to talk about it? I don't want my marriage problems to be what people think about when they hang out with me. It's easier to be my best self when it's my self that's getting the attention and not my problems.

Just to pound this nail a little harder... I have a friend who is an ultra marathoner. When people talk to her there's always a certain wariness, like the insane distances she runs, and the obsessiveness she brings to it, make her a slightly different breed of human from the rest of us. If I'm going to be set apart, I want it to be for something cool.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.