WenikiTiki..oh yes I got that one as well "I love you but I'm not in love with you". Well, I really hope it eased his mind telling me that while he's sleeping with my friend!
I'm slowly getting out of the way hopefully he's not completly brain washed by the OW and will eventually realize what he's losing or maybe even lost by the time this divorce is over! I'm pretty sure the OW would love to be his mommy, she's quite a bit older than him and would do just about anything to get into his family, for financial reasons mostly! She's proved what type of morals she has, it sad to think I was actually her friend. How did I not see or hear the signs?? Maybe I did, but just didn't want to think a friend or husband would be capable of causing so much devistation to the people that love them!
Haha..im still working up the courage to try the new gym! Hopefully by the end of this week. These people are serious STUDS..like olympic level weight lifters. And here's me needing to lose 45 lbs but I really don't care..I think it will be great motivation being around such dedicated people! WenikiTiki..I appreciate your input so much and am greatful to have such great advise from people that have gone through the same heartache and survived!
M:37 H: 38 Married 16/ T20 Son: 16 Caught cheating with HW (also my good friend) 8/20/14 Papers delivered: 9/4/14