Hi Kira - I heard all this: lacking natural chemistry, he is content but wants to be 'happy' (he actually said 'I'm not UNhappy, but I'm not happy), and said we were close, but we never really 'grew closer together.' I'm sorry you heard these words too. Best thing you can do right now is your 'homework' as suggested by Cadet. You will get some mighty fine advice here that will get you through whatever might be coming your way. And keep posting - let us know how your talk turned out tonight...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15