afraid I have waited too long #4

[nit84]

Mr Bond,

I was going through some threads and saw a response you gave in which part of it said "fix yourself and you will be able to get your M on track."

I totally agree with you on this.

I know all Sitches are unique but I am having a hard time at the moment because I believe I have changed(not done yet) a good amount and all my W does is ignore it.

I know I can't make her see the changes but it gets frustrating when one of the things, that was/is an issue in our M, is communication but my W refused to talk to me because she said I would get the wrong idea if she did.

I understand that this is how she has decided to approach the process and I have no control over her decision at all.

Now that my W has moved out the lines of communication, except for 2 emails, have been cut off.

I have been at this a long time and realize I didn't DB to the best of my ability. I had the best of intentions but was confused a bit on how and when to do certain aspects of DB.

Sandi, Wonka, Starsky, Yourself along with others have gotten me to understand a bit of where I have been going wrong and what I might be able to do to help my sitch.

I guess what I am asking is am I still missing something and what can I do from this point on if anything? Or because my W made a choice to move out is it now just a waiting game to see if she has a change of heart?

Thanks in advance for anybody's thoughts or advice.